Njengoba abantu asebekhulile bekhula, amazinga abo okunyakaza angase ehle. Ngenxa yalokhu, kungaba inselele ukusukuma lapho uhlezi noma ukungena nokuphuma esihlalweni. Ukuba ne-a isihlalo esinezingalo zabantu abadala inganikeza ukwesekwa kwabadala isidingo sokugcina ibhalansi nokuma kwabo kusesimweni, futhi bagweme ukuwa. Lezi zihlalo zinganikeza induduzo nokusekelwa okudingeka kakhulu kanye nosizo ekudambiseni iqolo, intamo, nobuhlungu behlombe.

Isizathu sokuthi kungani ukhetha isihlalo eside esinezingalo zabantu asebekhulile

Lokhu kukhethwa kwezihlalo zabantu abadala kuhlanganisa izihlalo ezikuphakamisela phezulu, izihlalo ezizwakala sengathi untanta esikhaleni ukuze udambise ukungaphatheki kahle kwamalunga, nakho konke okuphakathi. Isihlalo esinohlaka lwensimbi esinesihlalo esinamapheshana nangemuva singadambisa izinhlungu zomgogodla futhi sikunikeze ukuhamba ngaphandle kokukhathazeka ngokunamathela esihlalweni esithambile kakhulu. Abantu bavame ukuqala ukuzwa ukungakhululeki okukhulu kwamalunga njengoba bekhula. Ngenxa yalokho, ukukhetha izihlalo ezinezingalo kuyisinqumo esihle kubantu abadala.

Ukunethezeka

Kubantu abakuthola kunzima ukusukuma noma ukuhlala phansi, izihlalo ezisekelwa izingalo, isibonelo, zinganikeza usizo olwengeziwe. Kunjalo, ukuthi banawo amandla anele omzimba angaphezulu okuzisiza kuncike kulokho. Usayizi wesihlalo, ubude, nokujula konke kuthinta indlela isihlalo esinethezeke ngayo. Ukuthola isihlalo esinesihlalo okungenani esingama-intshi angu-19 ukushona nama-intshi angu-21 ububanzi kuvame ukukhetha kubantu asebekhulile.

Ukuma Okufanelekile

Ukuma ngendlela efanele kungenye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu okufanele zicatshangelwe lapho ukhetha izihlalo ezinezingalo zabantu asebekhulile. Qinisekisa ukuthi izihlalo ozikhethayo zisekela intamo, umhlane, nezingalo. Lokhu kuzokwenza kube lula ngabathandiweyo bakho ukuthi bahlale ngokunethezeka ngaphandle kokuphatheka kabi ngokomzimba. Ukuze ulondoloze impilo enhle kakhulu futhi unciphise ubuhlungu, ukuma okufanele kubalulekile.

Ukusekelwa Kwekhanda

Ukuze kuqinisekiswe induduzo nokusekelwa kwekhanda, intamo, nomgogodla, iziguli ezilawulwa yikhanda elibuthakathaka noma eliyancipha zizodinga ukwesekwa kwekhanda okwengeziwe. Mude isihlalo esinezingalo zabantu abadala ube nokusekelwa okude okungemuva okusekela futhi ikhanda lakho nengalo esekela izingalo. Kubalulekile ukusekela ikhanda ngoba ukulawulwa kabi kwekhanda kungase kuphazamise ukuphefumula nokudla.

Side Usekela

Omude isihlalo esinezingalo zabantu abadala hlinzeka ngosekelo oluseceleni futhi. Ukusekelwa kwangemuva kwenza kube lula ukugcina ukuma komugqa omaphakathi, okunzima uma uhlezi ngenxa yemisipha ebuthaka namandla adonsela phansi adonsela imizimba yethu phambili. Ngaphezu kokuthuthukisa umuzwa womuntu wokunethezeka, izisekelo ezisemaceleni zingaba nomthelela omuhle ezinhlelweni zabo zokuphefumula, zokugwinya, nezokugayeka kokudla.

Izihlalo Ezinezikhali Ezinwetshiwe Zisiza Abadala Bahlale Futhi Bame

Uma uke waba seduze nomuntu osekhulile, cishe uye waqaphela ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi badinga usizo lokwenza okuthile  izenzo ezibonakala zilula njengokuhlala nokuma . Kuthiwani uma, nokho, bekunesihlalo esingabasekela ngaphandle kokudinga usizo lomunye umuntu?  Kube bonke isihlalo esinezingalo zabantu abadala iyisihlalo esiyisitayela esinezingalo ezinwetshiwe njengesici saso esivelele. Lokhu kuguqulwa okuncane kwesihlalo esivamile empeleni kuzokwenza kube lula ngabantu asebekhulile noma abakhubazekile ukuba bahlale phansi futhi bavuke kamuva ngaphandle kosizo lwabanye.